Sometimes I wonder what women were honestly sent down to be. Juggling the roles of a mother, a wife, a daughter,a daughter- in- law, a professional and god knows what more ! Women sometimes forget their true identity. Always under pressure of keeping everyone happy, compromising against our will , whether at work or at play they truly wonder ,'Who are they meant to be'?
Why is it that they feel guilty if they refuse to slog in the kitchen or they feel like contradicting opinions of their family? Why do they feel guilty if they wish to visit a parlour and pamper ourselves instead of helping their child to do homework just once?. Why do they feel guilty if they wish to be alone at times ? Why do they feel guilty if they are ambitious and want to climb the ladder? Why do they feel guilty if they are not home the whole day taking care of home and children? Why do they feel guilty of being with friends and forgetting to complete daily chores? Why do they feel guilty of not wanting to do anything at times? Why do they feel guilty if they are not a nice person at all times?
Do they deserve to to be made to feel guilty each time and continue the life's journey only accommodating for other's comfort at the cost of personal choice ?
I am sure they wish to know the answers to my questions and begin the process of discovering the answers.
Why is it that they feel guilty if they refuse to slog in the kitchen or they feel like contradicting opinions of their family? Why do they feel guilty if they wish to visit a parlour and pamper ourselves instead of helping their child to do homework just once?. Why do they feel guilty if they wish to be alone at times ? Why do they feel guilty if they are ambitious and want to climb the ladder? Why do they feel guilty if they are not home the whole day taking care of home and children? Why do they feel guilty of being with friends and forgetting to complete daily chores? Why do they feel guilty of not wanting to do anything at times? Why do they feel guilty if they are not a nice person at all times?
Do they deserve to to be made to feel guilty each time and continue the life's journey only accommodating for other's comfort at the cost of personal choice ?
I am sure they wish to know the answers to my questions and begin the process of discovering the answers.
Well expressed Kavita..!
ReplyDeleteAnatomically and emotionally men and women may be different. Socially and economically we are equal and must not only respect equality but promote it publically.
Kavita congratsvfor your blog. Women are the other half of a human entity. Ardhanari . So there is no.inferior and superior only equals .savita venkat
ReplyDeleteKavita congratsvfor your blog. Women are the other half of a human entity. Ardhanari . So there is no.inferior and superior only equals .savita venkat
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